Wednesday 17th March, 2009
Dear [firstname] your monthly newsletter in which we cover subjects, which improve the flowering of your heart. By means of embracing your sorrow in order to enjoy your life and the state your are in. Hans
What is Jealousy?
Jealousy is an emotional state of mind by which you have a low self esteem and you view yourself as not skillfully, not important or not loved. You put yourself in the position of an UNDER DOG. This can be in the area of wealth,
beauty, power, education, skills, knowledge, status, love or race.
A perceived low self esteem compared to others who have more possessions, education, brains or receive more love and attention of others. Or realize things in life with less effort and you have to do much more for realizing these things.
You have a tendency to be angry at yourself. You exaggerate an lacking aspect of yourself and totally forget, which capacities and things you have received from the universe up to now. You are not gratefully towards the universe, which has supplied many things in your life. You feel deep contracted pain in your heart.
Jealousy can lead to criticizing the person at which your jealousy is directed or if this does no longer works you start imitating the person. Same clothes, same work, same sports, same car and so on.
Why is it harmfully?
In the background jealous persons steal life energy, because they can not create it by themselves. They try to break into your defense and steal your life energy (love) by means of critics, domination and manipulation. In the past they did not receive from their parents or life partner attention. This could have been only for 1 minute and this program is running in their mind and rules their life.
They prefer to keep you out of your passion and gain your life energy, which you can not use to realize your or common dreams. (see manipulation strategies). The more you develop spiritually and your heart starts to flower the more grace will come into your live and the stronger your jealous partner might try to control you. He or she also needs to start working on this issue otherwise the relationship will be non supportive.
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Below you can watch about 10 selected messages of Bhagavan. It will automatically switch to the next one. By rolling your mouse you can select the next video, put full screen or stop temporarily and read the newsletter. In case you click stop you get a list of titles you can select. Among others the titles Accepting Your Self and Setting Relationships right support this newsletter. (If you do not see the video player please Click here)
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Jealousy in partner relationship and 4 manipulative strategies
In relationships the jealous partner beliefs the third person has an characteristic, possession or skill, which he or she lacks and for this reason the partner gives more attention or love to the third person. As a result the person is mad at her or him and exaggerates the negative low self image and becomes an UNDER DOG. The jealous person puts all his or her attention on the lacking capacity, skill, identity, attention or love. The anger creates a distance between the partners and this is not very productive for the quality of their relationship.
Jealousy can be a constantly residing emotion and comes to the surface:
- in criticizing the partner on her or his passion
- breaking down the third person who gets more attention or love from the partner
- not permitting the partner to be in contact with the third person
- crying to demand the partners love.
These are 4 manipulative strategies by which the external world is controlled and made small. The manipulated partner can not breath. Many partners fulfill the wishes of jealous partners for years, because they do not like combats and do not have enough love, security or passion to live their own life. Jealousy and the 4 manipulative strategies are an excellent way to remain in power over the partner.
How much do you love yourself to stay in this situation? The jealous partner is not able to control his or her mind and starts to control the outer world. There is charge in their consciousness going back to childhood or possibly the jealous person could not control his or her mind in the past with sexual affairs outside his or her relationships and creates strong fears you would do the same today. Their feeling of quilt resides as a charge deep inside. They are extremely suspicious and exaggerate every situation. They see their own mind (of the past) in the partners mind and do not trust it at all. A trustful intimate relationship is not possible. A constant residing fear for loosing the partner is resident.
In most cases both partners are jealous and attract each other for this reason and become aware of early childhood problems of not receiving love and identifying with this pain. Another possibility is that one partner is very pride and the other is very jealous. The pride person is a TOP DOG and the Jealous person is the UNDER DOG. One has a false blown up identity and beliefs all their wisdom and possessions are individual (Pride) and the other person has a false broken down identity he or she lacks individual wisdom and possessions (Jealous). As long as they do not see these processes and realize these interacting issues they run into circles for years.
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Oneness Blessing calendar an receive it remotely
Oneness Blessing sessions are organized throughout the world. See Handy Links at the left column for every country. Every 2 weeks we organize an Oneness Blessing session in Bloemendaal Netherlands. If you live abroad or cannot make it, you can zoom into the session by meditating at around 11:45 hours, when the actual blessing giving starts. We suggest you to prepare in the following way:
- subscribe through the contact form and put in the message "remote oneness blessing"
- decide for which suffering you would like the Oneness Blessing to support you
- connect with attention and intention remotely with us
- Invite all you teachers and ancestors to come and help you
- realize you tried to solve your problem for ages on your own and you need Divine grace
- do some yoga exercises
- do some mantra exercises like Dyana Mantra
- sit down and receive the Oneness Blessing remotely
Any questions or request please let me know through the contact form.
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Web site video information
On the homepage of www.oneness4all.eu we offer a selected set of video messages of Bhagavan, Anandagiri, Oneness Temple information and music. Everyone interested into Oneness Blessings should watch these videos. They are a great source of connecting with Amma and Bhagavan.
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